We've had a girl who is overcoming fear.
First she came home and told me she needed a little scooter.
She said Paxton taught her how to ride it.
She wasn't kidding.
I told her teachers that this might be stressful for her
(I have to reroute any mall trip near a holiday cause even a glimpse of any holiday character causes a major melt down)
I didn't send a family member on purpose
I knew with one of us as a crutch she may succumb
to the same old behavior
I was sent this picture in the middle of the day
This is the closest she's ever been to any dressed up character.
And she is smiling!!!
She chose not to sit on his lap but this is HUGE progress.
(We are planning a Disney trip next year I think she is ready)
For her 4th birthday she got this big girl bike
for two days she rode her bike
Then....
she almost fell off
(I'd like to point out I caught her and the bike)
I kept pushing her to ride it all the way home through lots of tears
I thought if she could keep going she would push passed the fear
Well......
the bike has sat since that day and collected dust
UNTIL
Apparently a boy at school took a scooter from Lily
she went and found something else to do
but decided in this moment that she needed more options
On our way home out of the blue she said
Mommy I'd like to go home and ride my big girl bike
And that she did.....
2 comments:
she is overcoming so many fears, how wonderful! have a great trip.
yay!! She is a brave girl :) I love that she is facing fears with a smile on her face.
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